Hot towel or hot steamy facecloth held onto problem area before shave works wonders.
After shaving warm facecloth no soap and wipe areas two or three times.
As for after shave.
Nivea face cream with a few drops of aftershave. Rub between the hands and then onto shaved areas.
This takes longer to rub into your face,but masage it in till it disapears.
Now you need shaving facecloths too.lol